Who doesn’t want a girlfriend? If you look around you will find out that everyone is in a relationship. From your friends to your siblings, everyone is in a relationship. Are you feeling left alone? Are you feeling like you are missing something? Having a girlfriend has its own benefits. I am in a relationship for 3 years. So, you can say that I am qualify for this topic. I will share my own experiences what is it like to have a girlfriend?
What is it like to have a girlfriend
If you manage to find a girl who has smartness, intelligence, responsibility, kindness, understanding and self respect you will gain many experiences.
There are some benefits of of having a girlfriend:
- Your insights will be open
- You will have your own motivation
- You can share your emotion and feelings
- Feelings of love can make you confident and strong
- Someone you can love
- You always have someone to talk to
- The house is always clean
- Taking care
- You will feel mature
- Get rid of bad habits
- Psychical need
- Your life will be joyful
1. Your insights will be open
When two different people from different background, interest, idea, history and point of view meet each other they gain new experience and knowledge. You will learn many things which will help you to develop your personalities. You will generate fresh and new idea or concept. Falling in love can change the mindset of someone who was initially stiff to be much more dynamic and brighter. And most important, you will feel different and joyful, like something happing inside you.
2. You will have your own motivation
Life always doesn’t go according to plan, we have to face many ups and down. Some time we get demotivated, at a time time like this we need some one who can understand us. Of course we have family and friends but some time they also fails to understand. That’s why sometime your girlfriend will be the best motivator, because she is the one who is closest to you. You can openly share your problems.
3. You can share your emotion and feelings
Guys have emotion too. We try to hide it from society because of embarrassment. We even hesitate to share it with our won parents and friends. There are certain things which we can’t share with certain people. Having a girlfriend have a plus point that you can show your weakness to someone with out feeling embarrassed. You have someone to connect with emotionally.
4. Feelings of love can make you confident and strong
Yes, you will be confident and strong. Finally in your life you will feel like there is someone whom you have to protect and take care. You will became more responsible and careful. You will make your decisions wisely and intelligently. It will eventually make you strong and confident, you will value everything.
5. Someone you can love
Everyone has feelings of love that must be shared . These feelings can help a person to deal with various kinds of differences between people and make you understand and appreciate any differences that exist.
6. You always have someone to talk to
A a social being we always need someone to share our thoughts, ideas and feelings no matter how much introvert you are. You can’t always connect with your friends or family members for certain topics and reasons. You can’t share everything with everyone and we also get bored many times. But not necessarily everyone will hear you. You just need a right person.
7. The house is always clean
Women love to stay clean. As a man myself I can say that majority of men don’t clean their room regularly. I always make quite a mess in my room and she hate it. She always clean the entire house and clothes regularly. With a girlfriend, your shirt will never be thrown around by you, and your leather shoes will not lose their luster because of shoe polish. She always take care of me like am a little kid(LOL). There are many good things you can learn from her which can affect your daily life.
8. Taking care
Women are good in nurturing, it is in their nature. It doesn’t matter if who you are they care for everyone including you. Having a girlfriend will make your life easier than you expected. They take care of everything.
9. You will feel mature
Having a girlfriend allows you to learn how to become a mature man. Because with her, you must protect her, and you will pay more attention to your own words and deeds in all aspects of life.
10. Get rid of bad habits
If you have bad habits you will automatically get rid of it because women mostly very care for their health and surroundings. Having a girlfriend can let you get rid of the bad problem of spending money. Because with her, you are obligated to give her a stable nest. Hehe, then you have to learn to save money to buy a house.
11. Psychical need
Every one have physical needs both men and women. Loneliness leads to do many unnatural things which is indeed bad for health. And you will always be unsatisfied. Having a girlfriend means a healthy relation and body. You will explore real pleasure of relationship.
12. Your life will be joyful
While having a girlfriend you will see you will feel & see everything differently. Everything feels wonderful with her. You can go to many places like movie, park, party or picnic. Of course you can have same fun with your friends but with girlfriend it feels different.
Of course, there are many benefits of having a girlfriend. Just wait for single friends to discover it by themselves. In short, the benefits are beyond your imagination, so get out of being single.